Yvonne Ellis

 


Tag: challenges

TRANSITION

 

2018 has been a year of transition!

It started off as the ‘norm’ but ended up being the exception. I left the comfort zone of having a paid job working for an employer to take a step of faith and risk to carve out my own company. It has been 9 months since I embarked on this journey and many people thought I was crazy, but this decision made total sense to me. It has been a year of transition on all fronts: career-wise and personally; change has developed my character. Now that does not mean it has not been challenging, it certainly has.

As my own boss financially I have had to learn to make my own way and think on my feet about how to maintain my family financial priorities, invest in my business and support my charity organisation, Daughter Arise. It has helped me to think about money in a different way and I am learning more about business. I am taking baby steps but I am slowly learning and growing, something I never experienced in my ‘comfort nest’. This has been necessary for me to get to the next stage of developing myself and vision.

On a personal level, I have had to do new things in order to introduce YEME Empowerment to people. I am good at doing the online stuff: youtube videos, blogs, etc but putting myself out amongst people has required me to push through my inner introvert. It’s strange really: I am totally comfortable giving talks and doing training workshops, but find it challenging doing networking events! I have started to attend networking events and take more of an interest in Linkedin. I also recognise that I need to have more of a social media presence and that is something I will focus on in 2019. These things I am not naturally at ease with doing. I had to ask myself the question what is more important: building my vision or doing what I am comfortable with? I did not think twice about the answer. Building YEME and making it a success is my priority so I will push past any internal barriers to reach my goal.

Besides learning about business and overcoming shyness, the transition has shaped my mindset. I think about things more from a long-term aspect rather than just the here and now. What do I need to do to develop myself? How do I maintain consistency? There are layers and stages of transformation and transition. I am learning about these stages from books, mentors, videos and people that inspire me to ‘break the norm, not be the norm’. To achieve things that have never been done before there is a process you go through and learning it and applying those changes to my life has been the most rewarding and challenging thing I have ever done.

The transition stage is like standing in the middle of a bridge. I am nowhere near where I left from but still far from my destination; I am transforming whilst not knowing where my journey will take me. There are no straight roads or plans on this journey to transition. Sure I have 1,3 and 5-year goals that I want to achieve but seldom things happen in a straight line, I have found that to be the case so far. No matter what happens I am sure this transition phase will bring growth, reflection and adventure; it is where amazing things happen.

 

DREAMS DO COME TRUE

Seven years I waited for this moment. It was not easy to get here, but finally, my book Daughter ARISE that was originally released in 2010 is now available in selected Waterstones bookstores. I cannot describe to you what this moment feels like. The anticipation and excitement of walking up to the department where my book is shelved was an unforgettable experience; dreams do come true.

Originally when the first edition of my book was released the book company that I had a publishing contract with was supposed to pursue this avenue, but things never materialised (long story!). For a while, I gave up on the dream as it seemed unattainable but when I launched my own company YEME Empowerment, one of my main goals was to re-release the second edition of my book as an independent self-published Author, and that energised me to pursue this dream again.

The process to get book retailers to stock a book as a self-published Author is not easy, after all, there are many Authors trying to achieve the same goal, and only so many books that a bookstore shelf can hold. Money, as they say, makes the world go round and in the book world that basically translates to ‘will the book sell?’ I believe my book will continue to sell. Over the last seven years, I have steadily built a platform of knowledge and expertise based on successfully overcoming many challenges, and relationships with people who are interested in my journey and this has allowed a new audience to be introduced me and my book. I feel extremely blessed that my book holds a space in any Waterstones store. I have learned a lot about the book publishing process over the years and it is something I plan to share with people who are interested in writing and publishing a book that signs up for my YEME book starter workshop that I will be launching in the near future. http://www.yemeempowerment.com/publishing/

As I got caught up in the emotion of the moment, a lovely lady approached me and asked if I was the Author of the book, to which I replied yes. After briefly telling her what the book about she ended up buying it and asked me to sign it and we took a photo! It was a very impromptu book signing, the icing on the cake of a perfect moment! There is nothing sweeter than overcoming the challenges and odds that situations, people or circumstances present; as it is in these moments that character and resilience are built.

The stores that my book is not physically on the shelf in, you can order from any Waterstones store or on their online site. I am enjoying this moment and plan to visit the other stores to see my book on the shelf and take selfies. My encouragement to you is to never give up on your dreams. You will need to believe it can happen and believe in yourself, it will require sacrifice, may take a timely route or be dependant on other things to come into place but if you keep focused it can happen; I have the proof. Dreams do come true.

Check out my first Waterstones book signing here. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UKSRVNJzFl0

Yvonne